XtremeJibber2001 wrote:DMC_Freeride wrote:The reality of socialized racism against black Americans is only a generation behind us.. The pain of the horrible way black Americans were treated is still fresh in many peoples minds.. I can't pretend to understand the way an oppressed people feel after suffering for so long..
But I do know that we as a county need to try to make ammends for those indescretions that still exist in places today. As we get to the end of this attempt to make things better there will be people that do not think it still needs to exist and people who try and take a militant stand to continue the fight as well as people that take advantage of it...
I agree with some of what you say, but we as a society shouldn't go around rewarding those of a different skin color just because we'd like to make-up for something that occurred many years ago that many of my fellow classmates had no part in.
Rewards of any kind, whether it be financial, career related, scholarly, etc. should not be rewarded on race/
Although you personally may not have committed any wrongdoing, you are definitely reaping the benefits of many years of oppression. I'm sure you won't see it that way, but it's very true.
You sound like some of my old co-workers who were sure I got to my position in the company by some means of "unfair" affirmative action. I am a woman & black so I was told I was a "double minority".
They weren't there when I graduated in the top 10% of my high school class, with the top SAT score of the school up to that point. That I earned a full academic scholarship that had nothing to do with my race or gender, or that I maintained a 4.0 in college. 10 years out of school I had earned that position due to over 20 years of study, hard work and paying my dues. Family members told me, 'You'll have to be twice as good to get half as much' and that's true.
Let me tell you, life is a daily struggle against racist attitudes. You wouldn't believe the stories - from apartments I've lost, stores I've been followed in, down to women who are afraid I'll steal their purse. For the purposes of this discussion we'll leave out the many times people have felt free to let the N word fly "just because".
You live without that stress. Doors are completely open to you and you don't have to be exceptionally good to walk through.